Some thoughts on submission. Now most of the world may thing that when someone carries the title of “submissive” that they are weak. For some reason folks assume that perhaps it is a personality defect or childhood trauma and that is why they lack the where with all to stand up and have a “normal” relationship. Those poor fools, I feel sorry for them.

Submission is a gift, a precious and tremendous gift that only someone strong can give. You cannot give up your power if you have none. Rather, it is the submissive that truly has the power. It is that power that they give their partner… that is the fuel that fires the D/s relationship.